Workers taking paid family leave fight fear of stigma over absence
Smith works at the
On the surface, the decision to use the program would seem obvious, but Smith had recently accepted a promotion to vice president of benefit operations at Unum's office on
Smith, who lives in
"It was incredibly important for myself and my family to have that time off, most importantly in easing any sort of financial burden that might have resulted from stepping away from work," he said in a phone interview. "I never experienced any stigma here at Unum. I think leadership has encouraged everyone to take full use of the program. Though I didn't experience the stigma at work, I think I caused a lot of it myself, because of the challenge it was for me to step away from work for that long."
In a little over a year, most new fathers and mothers in
The state's program, to cost an estimated
The paid leave for a new child will not be available until
"If I were to characterize where people are, it's caught up in the confusion or uncertainty of what they need to do, the timing of when things go into effect; it's all the uncertainty of how the new law will be put into play and implemented," said Bartulis. "The other response you get from some employers is they see this as yet another thing they have to contribute towards another expense they will have to incur to operate in
Unum has not looked at the new law in that light, though. Instead, it sees itself as a leader in promoting family leave.
"This is one of the things workers are really asking for,"
Like every other employer in the state, Unum has the option of opting out of the state's paid leave program. The company would have to show that it has a private plan equal to or better than the one the state provides in order to receive an exemption from the newly created
"If an employer represents that it satisfies the criteria set forth in the application, the employer will receive a presumptive approval subject to audit by the department,"
As of
Unum, which has 600 employees in
When crafting its paid leave program, Unum looked at the full spectrum of paid-leave laws across the country, given that it has 10,000 employees in the
"When we make decisions about our total rewards package, our suite of employee benefits, we broaden it out so that it will impact employees across all of our markets," said Unum spokeswoman
Hannaford Supermarkets, which employs nearly 27,000 people in
"We listened to our associates when they told us what they want to help achieve well-being and balance in their lives, and this is one way we can advance our commitments to our associates," said
The supermarket chain will not be applying for an exemption, Peffer said. As of
At Unum, more than 300 employees have used the family leave plan since it launched last year, 40% of whom were new fathers. "It was amazing to me to see all the dads that used it," Joseph said, recalling that the same benefit was not available to him when he became a new dad.
He was surprised, too, because he believes "a little bit of a stigma" exists in the workplace today around parents taking time off after a new child.
Last March, Unum conducted an online survey of 500 new parents – half of them fathers – finding that 37% of new dads feel there's a stigma in their workplace around new parents taking time off. And although 62% said their employer offers paid parental leave, 50% said they spent 30 days or fewer away from the workplace after the birth or adoption of a child. That stigma, the survey found, involves a fear of being passed over for a promotion or being looked down on for taking time off.
For Smith, the Unum vice president who recently took paid leave, his fears were with his co-workers seeing his taking time off as coasting. However, he said, they were supportive of his leave.
Smith and his wife staggered their leaves. She went on maternity leave after the birth of their son, Casey, while he continued to work.
"That allowed us to keep our son out of any kind of day care for as long as possible," he said. "And when my wife was transitioning back to work, it helped her to know I was home with him in the house."
That time spent with Casey was invaluable, Smith said. "It really gave me a chance to bond with my son; I saw him develop in so many ways at such a crucial stage in his life. Most importantly, it gave me peace of mind knowing that I was providing for my family and being a leader for my family, while the company was supporting me in doing that."
If paid leave had not been available to their family, Smith said, he believes his wife may have had to leave her job to stay at home full time with Casey.
"Think of the financial implications that has on a family – mortgage payments and everything," he said. "It gave her the opportunity to go back to work. I really think that's an important factor."
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