‘They don’t care what’s best for my child. I care’: Mom fights Florida over fragile son [Miami Herald]
From the time he was born 2,082 days ago, Braydenn Powell has never lived a moment outside a hospital or institution. His parents, who live near
A medical airlift, at a fraction of that cost, would reunite the medically fragile 5-year-old with his family, and shift the burden of his care from
“Florida won’t give me my child, unless I can pay for it,” said Braydenn’s mother,
“How in the world is it not medically necessary for my son to be with his family?”
With his strawberry blond hair and perpetual smile, Braydenn Powell appears in family photos almost like any other kid his age. Only the ventilator tubing hints at his severe disabilities.
Just 37 pounds and not quite three feet tall, Braydenn could be the poster child for a tragedy that, in its scope, is virtually unique to
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But Braydenn is no one’s symbol. Few people outside state government are even aware that 140 frail and disabled children live in institutions.
The lawsuit, filed a decade ago by the
Braydenn and his twin sister, Braylynn, were born on
The list of Braydenn’s diagnoses reads like chapters from a medical book. He suffers from pulmonary hypertension, a type of high blood pressure, and respiratory failure, chronic anemia and lung disease, is dependent on a respirator and a feeding tube, has a shunt in his head to drain fluid and has developed so far only to the level of an infant, according to records and interviews.
A few months after the twins’ birth, their father,
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“We lost our house. We were homeless,” said Hayes, 31. “We had a brand new baby. We went to the hospital and bawled our eyes out. My mom was the only reason why we had a place to live. She picked us up and basically gave us her house.”
“Leaving Florida was the hardest thing I ever had to do in my life,” Hayes said.
The plan, Hayes said, always was to retrieve Braydenn as soon as the couple was able. But days turned to weeks, and weeks into months. The twins got a baby brother, Colton, a year later, and then another brother, Collin, on
Hayes and Powell knew their family would never be whole without Braydenn. But every time the couple asked, Florida’s Medicaid managed care program, which insures the boy, had a reason why their son couldn’t leave Children’s
Records from the managed care plan, called
Even after Braydenn was diagnosed with liver cancer in the fall of 2021, and Hayes asked the state to transfer him so she could be there for his surgery and recovery,
As recently as March of this year, an attorney for Braydenn’s Medicaid managed care provider denied a request from a disability rights lawyer,
“Florida Medicaid does not cover transportation to another state for the convenience of a recipient wanting to be closer to family, which is what you have described here,” wrote attorney
The email outrages Braydenn’s mom: “Convenience of the family? What about the convenience of Braydenn?” she said. “He doesn’t even know his family. He knows me, because I talk to him on Facetime, and I’m able to go down to
“I’m sure Braydenn wants to be with his family. They don’t care about what’s best for my child. I care about what’s best for my child.”
At 5, Braydenn has slipped further and further behind his twin sister, and most children in his age group, Hayes said. He cannot walk or crawl. He doesn’t speak. He is functioning cognitively at the level of an 8-month-old, more or less, she said.
Hayes said she understands that her son would struggle with physical and intellectual development no matter where he lives, and her expectations for him are realistic. But she also believes that he would be healthier and happier living with his family — not in a facility among strangers who are paid to take care of him.
“I know he has disabilities. I’m not expecting too much for my son,” Hayes said. But, she added: “If they’d just give me my child, I would make sure he meets his goals.”
Like many parents of children with complex medical needs, Hayes said, as a result of training and experience, she is as qualified to care for her son as any nurse. She’s comfortable with his feeding tube. She knows how to suction his trach. She offered, she said, to transport Braydenn herself, with the help of family members and friends. The state said no.
But Hayes scoffs at the idea that she could ever cover the cost of a medical flight, even with the help of doctors at Hollywood’s Joe DiMaggio Children’s Hospital. She said they offered to ride on the plane at no charge.
It’s a classic Catch 22, Hayes said: She cannot afford a medical flight. And the state won’t approve any other options. “I don’t want my son to be in bed the rest of his life,” she said.
“How in the world is it okay to treat people’s babies like that,” Hayes said.
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