69 days after crash, injured Bennett Valley motorcyclist home from hospital [The Press Democrat, Santa Rosa, Calif.]
| By Randi Rossmann, The Press Democrat, Santa Rosa, Calif. | |
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The next moment a car driven by a 93-year-old woman turned into his path. It was Elsie Dembowsky's third crash in 2 years. She had gotten her suspended driver's license back nine months earlier.
The impact knocked Richardson from his motorcycle into a pole and through a barricade, severing his left leg below the knee and crushing the remainder of the leg and his hips.
The injuries were so severe it seemed the
For now, and perhaps for life, he needs a wheelchair for mobility. He is stunned at how quickly the patterns of his existence have changed: "My life has gotten very regulated."
He is
For the past seven years he's worked full-time as a welder for
He and roommates had been renting the family home from Richardson's parents, who'd moved out of the area. "I was living by the seat of my pants," said Richardson.
Now a large brace holds him upright in his new wheelchair. As he sat near a "Welcome Home Alan" sign on a sliding glass door, Richardson listed the positives of his new life.
"I'm really blessed to have what I still do," he said.
He's missing all of his left leg and is paralyzed from the waist down, but he has full use of his arms and hands. And he's especially grateful he didn't suffer brain damage in the
He has no memories of the crash. Much of what he knows comes from the police report. He was headed east on
Richardson, travelling at the speed limit, had the green light. As he entered the intersection Dembowsky started her turn on the green light but not with a green arrow.
According to police, it was a simple right-of-way violation with horrendous repercussions. "She was at fault," said traffic Sgt.
Dembowsky is a tiny woman who lives with her little dog in the hills above the crash scene. She said she remains shaken by the crash and thinks of the young man every day. But she doesn't agree with the police findings.
"I wasn't at fault. I looked left, right left," she said recently in an interview at her home. "I'm a safe driver."
"The green arrow wasn't working. If I got that green arrow this wouldn't have happened," Dembowsky said.
The police report indicates the woman initially told police the crash occurred while she was making her turn. But the next day she called the officer to say upon reflection she'd realized she'd remained in the turn lane.
The report also indicated the woman was concerned about a crash she'd been in on nearby
The officer said he told her both times to contact an attorney if she didn't agree with the police findings.
According to the state
She surrendered her license, which had included a restriction that she drive only from sunrise to sunset, two weeks after hitting Richardson.
Dembowsky declined to discuss the status of her license, but said she believed she was in good health with good eyesight and capable of driving safely.
Numainville, the police sergeant, said Dembowsky's actions that
"It's horrific the injuries he sustained," he said. "But unfortunately, these types of collisions" are not considered criminal, the sergeant said.
"I think of that boy every day. I pray for him every day," said Dembowsky, who described herself as a former nun and retired school teacher. "I know he's living with it every day and I'm living with it in another way."
Richardson declined to talk about Dembowsky, except to say: "She shouldn't be driving."
That
Maps in his bag, he headed home along
The police report said Richardson swerved in an attempt to avoid Dembowsky's sedan. Other drivers and neighbors who heard the crash came to his aid. Richardson remains stunned at his luck that they included two nurses and an off-duty
The strangers held the gravely injured man still, trying to reduce the loss of blood. They also feared he would go further into shock if he knew his leg was gone, they told officers.
The family learned later that a woman used her shirt as a tourniquet. A firefighter found the detached lower leg at the base of a tree. A neighbor brought out her child's crib sheet and they wrapped up the leg to send with him to the hospital.
It could not be re-attached because of the extensive damage to the upper half of the leg, which later was amputated.
It took five hours in holiday traffic to get to
Tears come as the parents recall how close they came to losing their son. They take pride in his recovery.
"You've had a very good attitude with this. It has helped us,"
"Neighbors, friends, friends of friends, a lot of people have really been eager to help," Richardson said. "Before all this happened I didn't realize how much a part of a community I was."
There's talk of a fundraiser at a local pizza restaurant and his parents have set up a trust account for him, hoping people will help with mounting costs of his new life. Donations may be made to the
In the aftermath, his roommates have moved out and his parents have moved back to help with his extensive day-to-day needs. Remodeling is underway of the single-story home to accommodate life in a wheelchair, including wider doorways and ramps. No longer able to work as a welder, Richardson talks of college and new career skills.
His boss,
Richardson is grateful to be able to play his guitar, though hanging out with friends on the weekends now more likely involves watching sports on television.
He hopes over time that he'll regain feeling in his leg.
"I'm always trying to wiggle my toes, thinking about it and visualizing it," he said. "If you give up it's not going to come back."
There are paraplegic hockey players, he points out. "I'm not setting any limitations."
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