When mail is more than what meets the envelope
COMMENTARY
Did you see the 1997 movie "The Postman?" It might have been a box office flop and a critics' punching bag, but it was actually loveable. "The Postman" is about how much we would miss the small, gracious things that connect us. In a post-apocalyptic world, the Postman delivers pre-apocalyptic letters. People begin to believe that the
"Neither snow nor rain nor heat nor gloom of night stays these couriers from the swift completion of their appointed rounds."
Once, mail carriers were proud of that motto; proud of a job well done; proud that the
For decades, the
No more. A man complained that his mail was not being delivered. Explaining that no letter can be delivered into the box without a box number, the postal worker seemed pleased, even proud, to inform the customer that his important letter had been "returned to sender."
A postal customer paid for priority mail express - the fastest mail service - because there was a date by which it had to arrive. She was given a tracking number. She watched in helpless frustration as the expensive piece of mail went from
Another woman did not know her friends' P.O. box number. She went up to the window and asked the postal worker for the box number.
"I cannot give that information out," he said.
She thought a minute and suggested, "Don't tell me the number, just place this birthday card in the right box."
"I can't do that," the employee said. "Your envelope doesn't have the box number on it."
She was frustrated, struck by the irony, but determined.
She wanted her letter delivered, so she said, "You write the number on the envelope - don't let me see it and then put it in the box."
He told her that she was rude and walked away. The intent was no longer to help. The intent was something else. Speedy and efficient delivery of mail - the envy of the world - was no longer the goal.
A man, less meditative than the woman with the birthday card, just stood at the counter screaming in frustration.
Of what are these modern workers proud? Not braving snow and rain and gloom of night to deliver a letter, not even walking in HVAC-controlled, indoor space, from the sorting table to a P.O. box? Are they proud of weaponizing procedure, undoing what was efficient, appreciated and good? Or are they just doing what they are told - following the DeJoy policies - even when the policies seem silly?
One tool to measure how far have we moved away, been pushed or pulled away from our sociopolitical norms is to remember how things were pre-Trump, pre-MAGA, pre-alt-Right. The undermining of simple procedures, social norms and institutional policies hurts, but it can be fought.
I listened to all the complaints, mulled and finally wrote a letter. Even as I was writing this, a postal representative visited Stock-bridge. In a meeting, he solved the problem - all mail will be delivered without interruption; without being returned to sender, even if no PO box number appears on the envelope.
"After all," he old me, "our job is to deliver the mail."
And just like that, with a soupcon of logic, a willingness to do the job and simple human caring, one of the small gracious things that connect us was restored.


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