Ryne Sandberg: The path less traveled
| By Matt Gelb, The Philadelphia Inquirer | |
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Errant golf balls sometimes litter the immaculate backyard. The 13th hole sits a short wedge beyond Sandberg's fence. He boasts a three handicap but plays his home course less than ever. There was instructional league ball to watch in
The family -- five children and five grandchildren -- will convene here this week for
They will add a third photo to the "Wedding Wall" that lines the staircase. They will sneak handfuls from the glass jar of M&Ms on the kitchen counter. They will toast to family, and to the next chapter of Sandberg's decorated life.
The 52d manager in
Sandberg feigned the cushy lifestyle. He spent the mornings of eight springs as a guest instructor in
"Nobody was home," Margaret said. "How much golf can you play?"
"Yeah," Sandberg said, "I was getting bored."
For now, the olive turmoil must wait. Sandberg procures a 40-minute ride to
He approaches the lone open window at the
"One," Sandberg says as he surrenders a
Eighteen years ago, Sandberg eulogized his baseball life in the form of a 313-page autobiography. The reticent superstar criticized
"And there will be no comeback. Period," Sandberg wrote. "I'll never play the game again on the pro level, despite media speculation to the contrary."
It reads today as if another man penned it. "How long?" the 54-year-old Sandberg asks, sipping water in his backyard. "The book was 18 years ago?" He has not reread it, although a copy is stashed somewhere in the house. "I bet it would feel weird," Sandberg says. "I have to break it out."
Instead, Sandberg displays the original copy of his 2,699-word Hall of Fame speech on a wall in Margaret's home office. The font is tiny. Sandberg now requires reading glasses to see it because his eyes suffered from the six years of nights spent staring at a laptop screen during bus rides as a minor-league manager.
If Sandberg intended the 1995 book to be his farewell, the 2005 speech served as his managerial doctrine.
"I hope others in the future will know this feeling for the same reason: Respect for the game of baseball," he said. "When we all played it, it was mandatory. It's something I hope we will one day see again."
He invited 225 people to
"You could tell he was a different person," longtime teammate
His divorce from Cindy became final
Sandberg brought Margaret and the couple's five children to a game at Wrigley in September. He headed for the batting cage. "We could have used you this year," Sandberg's former teammates told him. He returned to the grandstand.
"What are you smiling about?" Margaret asked.
"They want me to come back and play."
"You're going to, aren't you?"
Sandberg played two more seasons for the
"He thought it was time to go back, that he had something to contribute," Margaret said. "And he's never won a
He called
"He's not going to embarrass himself," Sutcliffe said. "He doesn't need to. There are people who need that job. They need the insurance and all the things that come with being in the big leagues. Ryno doesn't. He's doing this because he truly feels like he can do the job and wants the opportunity to prove that.
"He doesn't need it. That's when you get the best out of a person that you can."
"I'm looking to see what the pitcher's got."
Betts steps toward second.
"We have a guy with a big lead at first base."
O'Grady throws strike one. Betts' lead is longer.
"He's trying to steal a base right here, especially with two outs and maybe a singles hitter up there. He's trying to steal a base."
Betts dashes as O'Grady delivers the second pitch.
"There he goes. Got him."
The umpire makes his call amid scattered applause. The public address man reads an advertisement for fitness classes at a local boxing club.
"I'm thinking a little game strategy," Sandberg says. "Might be a good time for a slide step or a pitchout."
Sandberg managed 849 minor-league games. He played 456 before his major-league debut with the
"Why? In my opinion, because I was a Hall of Famer," Sandberg said. "And the path that the Hall of Famers before me paved said Hall of Famers don't make good coaches or managers. They don't know how to deal with the players. They'll be too hard on the players. The players won't be as good as they were.
"I heard all of that stuff. It didn't fit with the way I thought about it."
When asked why Sandberg could succeed where others failed, the octogenarian posed his own question: "Did any of the Hall of Famers manage in the minor leagues?" Few did.
The last seven men hired as
"I'm quite surprised," Dawson said, "that he, as a Hall of Famer, would want to go that route."
Margaret grabs a bat in the first of two rooms dedicated to her husband's career. "This is my favorite one," she says. The letter "M" is scribbled in black ink under "23," Sandberg's number. He added Margaret's initial to his bats in 1996, upon his return to baseball, as inspiration.
"It's just a different level of happiness I have grown into over the last 19 years," Sandberg says. "All of that has allowed me to do this."
Sandberg insists he is not on a one-man mission to disprove decades of baseball precepts. Yet, when he returned to
The shrine to Sandberg's career is full of memorabilia. One of the grandchildren must have played with the signed
<p>Sandberg debates what artifacts he will display at his
At
An elderly man approaches Sandberg minutes later. Sandberg had filled dozens of autograph requests earlier in the afternoon once he was spotted. He prepares for another.
"Ryno," the sheepish man says, "from a long-suffering
The fan shakes the Hall of Famer's hand. He never asks for an autograph.
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