How to have a breakthrough in 2023
As 2022 comes to an end, have you sometimes felt you were in a tough situation?

Maybe as the year ends, youâre in a tough situation right now?
Whether you need to decide if youâre going to buy leads, call leads or can't make up your mind about your next step â sometimes it seems as though the best solution is to wait until it feels right.
Kind of like âlet it sort itself out,â so to speak.
Doing nothing
Doing nothing hasnât moved your business where you wanted it to be, has it?
In fact, doing nothing has meant letting go of the steering wheel of your business â which is like leaving your passengers or the potholes to take over.
Maybe youâve felt that youâve missed out on opportunities due to lack of self-confidence?
Thatâs an affliction most salespeople have.
Most salespeople manage their business hindered by anxieties, worries, self-doubts and unwanted habits â characteristics we've come to accept as ânormal.â
What if there was one simple thing you could do to overcome this and help you reach your true potential?
It's exciting to think about, right?
When you start feeling unwanted stress and anxiety â what do you do? Try to think about something else, donât you? Take deep breaths? I get it, and it can be scary.
Itâs easy to feel that if nothing ever scares you, success is easy, right?
You imagine never feeling hesitant, shy or nervous. You just act. However, when you don't act, it is probably because of fear, right?
For example, if you can't talk about money with people, you may have money problems. Whenever you need to ask for money or negotiate financial terms, you freeze.
Our fears tend to block our communication. Confronting a fear can be tough, but the reward is enormous. Succeeding, despite a fear, means you have done something you could not do before.
And that is real success, isnât it?
Recognizing that fear
When you are about to go into an appointment, do you think:
- âWill they like my company?â
- âWill they want my product?â
- âWill my price be competitive?â
Or do you think:
- âWill I succeed?â
- âWill I make money doing this?â
- âCan I do this?â
- âWill I make it?â
Which way do you think most salespeople think? We doubt ourselves, donât we?
One thing
If there were a magic system, everybody would use it. And if everybody used it, then there wouldnât be a magic system.
Successful athletes visualize victory before they even step out onto the playing field. They imagine themselves making the basket, catching the ball, scoring the goal or finishing first. They play this âimaginary videoâ repeatedly in their minds until their mind accepts it as reality. When game time finally arrives, they are cool, confident and focused. They are determined to achieve victory and they know just how to do it.
And what is that one thing?
Itâs making a commitment, something that strikes at the heart of who you are and what you want for you family, your clients and most importantly, you!
So, instead of making a New Yearâs resolution, which you wonât keep (like all of us), make a commitment you will keep!
And Iâll help you out.
Itâs even written out for you. All you must do is print, sign and date it, and hang it up where youâll see it every single day in 2023, and who knows who you will become and what youâll accomplish in 2023?
Here it is.
I commit
- To reduce any distractions - every day!
- To watch my excuses to not act - every day!
- To demonstrate commitment to prospecting where I pay, where I play and where I pray - every day!
- To practice my communication skills â every day!
- To practice handling objections â every day!
- To track my results based on the commitments I make â every day!
- To eat healthy â every day!
- To get enough sleep â every night!
- To take quality family time with no distractions â every day!
I am committed to the above to promote personal and business growth, and I understand and agree that if I fail to keep my commitments, my manager, spouse or significant other will take this into consideration when placing future belief and confidence in me.
(Print your name as it appears on your pay/commission check.)
Signed: ___________________________________________
Date of commitment: _______________________________
Lloyd Lofton is the founder of Power Behind the Sales. He is the author of The Salesheroâs Guide To Handling Objections, voted 1 of the 11 Best New Presentation Books To Read in 2020 by BookAuthority. Lloyd may be contacted at [email protected].
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Lloyd Lofton is the founder of Power Behind the Sales. He is the author of The Salesheroâs Guide To Handling Objections, voted 1 of the 11 Best New Presentation Books To Read in 2020 by BookAuthority. Lloyd may be contacted at [email protected].



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