Spotting abuse
| By Craig T. Neises, The Hawk Eye, Burlington, Iowa | |
| McClatchy-Tribune Information Services |
One could genuinely have been accident. The other may be due to declining health.
Either might be the result of elder abuse.
Sunday is World Elder Abuse Awareness Day, the existence of which suggests a significant problem.
"People say, 'Oh, this is
However, reliable information about incidences of elder abuse -- which can be physical, emotional, sexual, financial or through neglect -- is difficult to come by.
"It's so grossly under-recognized and under-reported," said
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A broad telephone survey in
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Understanding abuse
The National Center on Elder Abuse, part of the
Ninety percent of reported cases of elder abuse involve family members, according to NCEA. That figure includes adult children and spouses. Abuse risk increases when family members abuse alcohol or drugs, have mental or emotional illnesses, or feel overwhelmed by their care-giving responsibilities, the agency reported on its website.
The risk of being victimized also increases for people with disabilities or dementia. Residents of nursing homes and other long-term care centers are not immune from abuse, NCEA said.
It's a problem ripe for a made-for-TV movie, with potential story lines too many to number.
Physical, emotional and sexual abuse are fairly self-explanatory, following the same patterns as abuse inflicted upon children and spouses or partners. Hildreth said sexual exploitation occurs when sex abuse is perpetrated by a paid caregiver, while neglect can be by a caretaker or by individuals themselves who, as a result of illness or isolation, can engage in behaviors that put themselves in danger.
Financial abuse, which Hildreth said has "skyrocketed," provides some of the most dramatic examples.
There are examples of caregivers draining a family member's bank account and claiming they were spending their inheritance while the person whose money it is remains living. In rural areas, valuable farmland can be appealing to an abuser who tries to talk an elder into signing a quit-claim deed, turning over ownership of their acres without any compensation.
Others include an adult child convincing an elderly parent to sell the house and move in until death or long-term care becomes necessary, only to take the proceeds of the sale, sell their own house and fly the coop, leaving the parent with nothing and nowhere to live.
Financial advisors have no business selling 30-year annuities to 80-year-old people, Hildreth said.
Citing a popular YouTube video series, Hildreth said it is a trait in
If only it always was true.
"People say, 'Oh, this is
Stop, thief!
There are many wealthy, retired Iowans, especially in rural communities, Tabor said, and those people are at special risk of being bilked by stockbrokers, bankers, insurance agents and family members. Clergy, attorneys and health care providers, too, Hildreth noted.
Tabor and Assistant Attorney General
"They were very easy pray," Smith said, adding the agent made off with hundreds of thousands of dollars.
The Iowa Insurance Division is a common source of elder abuse prosecutions. Other times, Tabor said, cases "bubble up" from area agencies on aging, or from the office of
Prosecutions are easy when there is a clear paper trail, Smith said.
Things get more complicated, Smith said, in he-said/she-said cases involving siblings whose opinions of a situation differ, or when dementia leaves a suspected victim unable to speak on his or her own behalf.
Prior to this year,
A new law approved in
"We'd like to see a stronger statute," Tabor said.
Recognize and report
As many factors as contribute to abuse, just as many contribute to lack of reporting.
Isolation is one, Hildreth said. Fear is another.
Embarrassment, too, about being victimized at all, or especially being subjected to abuse by a person they believed to have raised better. Another is many of today's seniors will put up with a lot to stay out of nursing home settings, which they remember as the drab institutions where their parents' generation was ensconced in old age.
A goal of raising awareness of elder abuse is not only to help more people acknowledge the existence of a problem, but also to empower victims to seek help, and to provide others with information to recognize its signs and to report elder abuse when it occurs.
"Awareness is so key," Tabor said. Victimization too often goes unrecognized, so it is important for people to learn the cues.
Those cues, Hildreth said, vary by type of abuse.
Development of a guarded approach to interactions with others can be a sign of the broad spectrum of abuse. Withdrawal from social situations, too. A broken wrist might be from a fall, but an abuse victim may be hesitant to talk about how it happened. Bruises in unusual places might be a sign, too.
Changes in dress, or a loss of interest in appearance, drastic weight loss or the appearance of another person in social or financial settings who seems to do all the talking could be signals of abuse, too.
Sudden inability to pay for food or medicine, or bouncing checks, after never having previous difficulty with finances, might indicate financial abuse.
"Something could be going on there," Hildreth said. Perhaps a person's mental capacity has changed. Or, perhaps, "someone is taking advantage."
In cases of immediate danger to a person, it is appropriate to contact police, Hildreth said.
In other cases, victims and others can turn, toll-free, to the
Hildreth encourages people to call even if they have an inkling abuse might be taking place. Even if they fear they are butting in.
"If you suspect, of you have a funny feeling," she said, "let somebody know. It's better to check and have it be nothing than let them suffer through that.
"We might be
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