The Daily Star, Oneonta, N.Y., Fred Scheller column
I have always had a strong opinion on this subject, but frequently decided against writing an opinion piece. I mostly try to keep this column on the lighter side. However, I was motivated by a "Sound Off" that appeared on our opinion page last month.
I was moved by the writer's description of their father's passing. How they sat by his bedside, day and night, while he suffered in pain with no positive outcome. They went on to explain how they saw their father cry for the only time in 47 years and how his eyes begged for help. They described their pain from the experience of watching a loved one suffer. They continue to have sleepless nights and dream about it, several months later.
Personally, I can't imagine there is anyone who would want to have his or her life end this way and have family members go through weeks or months of such a horrible ordeal. But there are people and organizations who oppose PAS and do not want this law to pass.
The bill is the "Medical Aid in Dying Act" and is modeled after
Two-thirds of New Yorkers support allowing terminally ill people to stop their pain with life-ending medication.
Some opponents of the bill cite religious reasons, others say it normalizes suicide. Some have concerns for the disabled community and others worry insurance companies and caregivers would encourage the terminally ill to consider PAS instead of the more expensive long-term end-of-life care. There are doctors who believe it is against the "oath" they take to treat people and they do not want to help people die. Some believe the focus should be on expanding and improving methods that allow people to live out their lives comfortably.
Some form of "Death with Dignity" is allowed in seven states (including our neighbors in
So, once a PAS law is passed, what is the outcome?
The year 2017 was
Ironically, though PAS is not permitted in
I believe people have the right to "Die with Dignity." I believe it is their choice and the business of nobody else. I do not want to be an imposition on my closest family members, creating mental anguish and bringing their lives to a complete standstill. It is not fair to them. And, I do not want my end to consist of months and months of pain, knowing there is only one outcome.
This is my opinion, and I believe, if I am ever in this situation, my opinion should be the only one that matters.
In the meantime, I'm going to do everything I can to enjoy this precious thing we call life.
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