Carthage family has unlikely donor step up after home destroyed by fire
About two weeks ago,
"I feel so bad about it,"
As a result,
Handling the case,
"It was very difficult,"
It was shortly before noon on
On the way to a container,
He went inside the office to wait for the secretary to get off the phone so he could use her computer. When she hung up, she said he needed to get home now.
"I said 'Why?'" he said, "and she said 'I think your house is burning.'"
Dispatchers were sending first responders to
He dropped his family off at the fire station and began driving the department's water truck to the scene, still convinced he wasn't responding to his house.
"I pulled up to the scene and just had a breakdown," he said. "I started panicking and crying."
His heart rate and blood pressure elevated as smoke bellowed out the back side of his house -- the room where his step-daughter sleeps. He ended up hyperventilating in the back of an ambulance with EMTs surrounding him and a fire chaplain praying by his side.
"I lost it," he said. "I've been to fires, but of course not at my own house. It takes a lot out of you."
The fire torched his step-daughter's room; nothing was left. Investigators would later determine the cause of the fire was linked to an air conditioning unit or power cord. One investigator determined that a cord running to a TV or gaming system might have been pinched, which sparked, then lit a nearby clothes hamper on fire.
"Thankfully no one was home," he said. "My kids would have been sleeping there had it started in the middle of the night."
In the days after the fire,
The bright side is the people who were there to help.
"I was blown away," he said of
Stefano's Pizza donated food, so did
"At the beginning, I didn't want anybody to give us things,"
Much of the support comes from
"I try to be involved in the community, try to show people the dog control guy is not a bad guy," he said. "It feels really good that people actually appreciate the things I do."
People they don't even know have been donating, he said.
"I didn't realize people cared this much," he said, "and we're not natives to this area. It just feels good. I've sat and cried multiple nights."
But, what goes around comes around. The fire chief of
"He has been a great firefighter,"
"Growing up," she said, "I went through four house fires. This just hit home really hard. He is a stranger, but I would do it for anybody."
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