Confidence is key to cold calling success
Confidence is the key to cold calling success, and that confidence comes from being uncomfortable.
Thatâs the word from Katelynn Blackburn, founder of Diligence Agencies, where she provides financial services to families seeking security and retirement planning. Blackburn also is an expert in cold calling, having done research on what makes for successful cold calling. She told InsuranceNewsNet that women are a bit better at that technique than men are.
âI think itâs because of our nature,â she said. âOur voices are more nurturing. But if you're selling insurance, that can be more of a touchy subject. So if you do have an empathetic voice, you sound a little bit more trustworthy, along with the fact that a lot of people will stay on the line with you, because you're not nearly as intimidating. I know a lot of women who do really well with phone sales. And I think that it comes down to theyâre not necessarily better at cold calling than men, but if women are willing to put in the work, I do believe people will stay on the phone a lot longer than they will with men.â
But women also tend to be more reluctant to pick up the phone to make those cold calls than men are, Blackburn said.
âWeâre worried about rejection, we're worried about getting yelled at or doing something wrong. But if you can overcome that hurdle, youâll surpass a man at cold calling every single time and people will be more receptive to listening to you.â
Women who build confidence will succeed at cold calling, Blackburn said, as nervousness and anxiety can be a hindrance to successful calling.
How to build confidence
âThe way to build that confidence is by being uncomfortable,â she said. âWhen you put yourself in an uncomfortable position over and over again, you become more confident in overcoming it. My motto is, âAlways live in the uncomfortable, be OK with being uncomfortable, and start living that way.â Thatâs the only way you grow.â
âEverything is difficult if you make it difficult, but you can look at it a different way and say, âIâm going to become more confidentâ and you can seek the discomfort and grow from it.â
Blackburn said she uses role playing to train the agents on her team to respond to objections and deal with different cold-calling scenarios.
Successful cold calling comes down to having the right mindset, she said.
âAt the end of the day, cold calling is a numbers game,â she said. âAnd if you make enough calls and youâre willing to put in the work and you believe you can do it, thereâs no way youâll fail. If youâre not worried about the rejection, if youâre not worried about the outcome, if you just put your head down and do the work and not think about those things, youâll see success.â
Blackburn said she believes cold calling will never go away, despite consumersâ reluctance to answer calls from unfamiliar numbers.
âI think that people build a lot of relationships through cold calling. Not everyone wants to scam you. There are people out there who genuinely want to provide you with information that is useful to your life. There are a lot of businesses that donât run off of leads. They rely on cold calling. I donât think cold calling will ever go away because it is a very lucrative and profitable way of doing business.â
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Susan Rupe is managing editor for InsuranceNewsNet. She formerly served as communications director for an insurance agents' association and was an award-winning newspaper reporter and editor. Contact her at [email protected].



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